Should I go back or just stay gone? Was it all a lie?

I`ve only been married a month to a man i`ve known since school. we `ve been together for 2 years on and off before marriage. i`m very much in love with him but he is an avid hunter and fisherman. He didnt have a job the first three weeks of our marriage so I took care of him and his 2 children when they were there. Now he has a job and still has not even offered to help me out at all. he is never home. He leaves at 2 to 3 in the morning and I might see him around 9 or 10 that night if im lucky. I get stuck with the kids and i dont mind but our house is being remodeled due to fire damage and we cant even walk through it but he doesnt have time to help me. I left him in hopes he ould see that theres more to life than hunting and his mom told him he should quit or slow down and he said no not a chance. before we married he said it would be a hobby not a part of our permanent everyday life. i miss my husband but i wonder if im just a maid, babysitter ,cook and toy. I dont feel like he loves me at all.