Family disagreement on buying clothes for upcoming baby..advice please?

so i am pregnant with a girl and I am a major tomboy and only wear mens clothing (except bra) and said that this baby will wear all neutral clothes cause i hate pink/purple/flowers/frillies...my boyfriend says i should buy all pink stuff even though i hate it...my mom says its cruel to use all neutral clothes on a girl...i did buy the little bows for her hair to let people distinguish shes a girl...any one else feel its soo wrong to not want to put my upcoming girl in girl clothes and only purchase neutral everything...even the bed sets and swing/highchar/bouncer/binet etc.? Give opinions